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Retirement Sentiments."The Road Not Taken."“Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, and I ... I took the one less travelled by, and that made all the difference.” That quotation, from one of my favourite poems - The Road Not Taken, by Robert Frost - is very relevant to the decisions you make when you are nearing the retirement transition. When you come to a fork in the road, how do you decide which way to go? When I was 34 I made the biggest career decision of my life, though I didn’t realise its importance at the time. I was working for a US Multi-National company in Cork, Ireland. I was the Managing Director designate when, unfortunately, the US parent decided to close the plant. I was offered the option to relocate to the corporate head office in Connecticut, or to a plant in South America. These were attractive options. I liked the Multi-National environment and was open to the possibility of working abroad, having previously worked in Africa. We didn’t have children at the time, so emigrating was a real option. Meanwhile, I was on a final interview for a small Irish company, with a great Brand and excellent growth prospects. The plant shutdown was a very stressful outcome for me, my colleagues and all the employees who had worked so diligently and skilfully on the project. The International President (GF), of the parent company was sent to Ireland to initiate the shutdown. He was regretful and nervous about this task. Government agencies, banks and trade unions had to be consulted. I had an excellent working relationship with him and he welcomed my local knowledge. We agreed that I would be the project leader on the shutdown, not a pleasant task, after which I would be offered compensation and a new position. On the Sunday before his return to the US, I brought him to my favourite spot in Ireland, the lake at Gougane Barra. Nestled in the Derrynesaggart Mountains is a beautiful lake, and on it, approached by a causeway, is a small church where St Finbarr founded a monastery.  As we stood on the lake shore in this magical setting, lost in our own thoughts, he turned to me and said “Why on earth would you want to leave Ireland, Greg?”
I had arrived at the “Fork in the road”, which way to go? My preference for decision making of this nature is to use logical analysis in weighing the pros and cons. Use the head, analyse and try to be objective. GF’s question got to the Heart of the matter. This was a decision that required Feeling as well as Thinking. I was very ambitious for my career, but which decision would serve my values best? In asking myself the question “What matters most”, my answer included ... family and friends, health, balance, and personal development. I decided to stay in Ireland and spent the following 26 years in that “small” Irish company with the great Brand. It became a “big” company and fulfilled as many of my career ambitions as any other job I could imagine. “I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I- I took the one less travelled by, And that made all the difference.” Stay in touch and subscribe to my monthly email newsletter, "Retirement Stories". It is full of new stories and tips on planning for and enjoying an active retirement. Subscribe Now.. Back from Retirement Stories: The Road not Taken to Retirement Sentiments Back from The Road not Taken to Retirement Planning |
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