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Retirement Sentiments.Why Retirement Stories?Storytelling is as old as humankind. Every culture, every land has a tradition of storytelling for entertainment, learning, influence and persuasion. The storyteller invites you into another world, or he may tell you a “true” story, embellished for interest and dramatic effect. In this way he can impart important messages, indirectly. Sometimes it’s a simple story where the “hero” tells you what to do. Or it may be a parable with metaphors and symbols, so that you go “inside” to discover its meaning for yourself. A salesman is a storyteller! Observe him lead you with openings like: “Let’s imagine you agree that...or, I wonder if...or, one of our customers was telling me last week... We often greet a friend with the salutation “What’s the story?” The television newscaster begins with - “The big story today is...” A client may say - “that’s the story of my life.” Yes, since people began to communicate, “Tell me a story”, has been a request of both children and adults. Stories are our birthright. The “Goban Saor” was a quick- witted storyteller, an artisan, who lived in pre-Christian Ireland. He was part of the old Celtic order of Bards and Druids. Here is a story, typical of his style, called “Shortening the Road:” One day, whilst out walking, the Goban Saor said to his son-”Shorten the road for me.” The son began to walk quickly, thinking that would help. The Goban sent him home, when he didn’t understand the request. The next day the Goban made the same demand, and this time the son began to run. The Goban sent him home again. When the son got home he told his wife what was happening. She had the answer. “When he asks you to shorten the road, he wants you to tell him a story!” This story is the origin of an Irish Sean-Fhocail (proverb): Gioraionn beirt bothar (Two people shorten the road for each other). I know this proverb is true since one of my retirement hobbies is hill-walking. We use stories for learning and sharing knowledge in organisations. When I joined my former company I asked questions that were answered with a story. “How did you make that sale? How do our competitors maintain quality? How do you get a budget approved in this company?” I have no doubt that the stories were sometimes embellished, which added entertainment to the learning! I believe stories are a very effective way to discuss retirement issues. This is why I created www.retirement-stories.com In our career, analysis drives business thinking. Research and facts are good, stories are unreliable. We have to be practical, have information that is real and factual, and stay grounded in the present. This approach engages the mind. Retirement Planning is about the future. Now you want to imagine possibilities - engage the heart, for energy and motivation. How do you imagine the future of your heart’s desire? As a story! And you can play with the story until you becomes familiar and comfortable with your image of the future. (Neuro-Linguistic Programming has some great tools for doing this.) I often use stories in Retirement Coaching. Stories have the power to motivate us to action and change, by arousing our emotions, in a way that logic and analysis does not.
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Recently Added StoriesAlso - Go to Retirement Sentiments - where you will find a full index of stories available on retirement-stories.com. The Bucket List: It's About Time! - You may have seen the movie "The Bucket List" - DO YOU have a Bucket List? ... Retirement? Never! - I love the sentiments expressed in this prize-winning Toastmasters' Speech ... About Butler - That last day at work ... after "About Schmidt" - the Jack Nicholson movie ... this funny and moving story takes a sobering look at retirement... Follow The Yellow Brick Road - In your transition to retirement, you may wonder if you have the resources you need for the new situation. The Wizard of OZ reminds you that sometimes you need look no further than your own backyard... The Road Not Taken - When you come to a fork in the road, how do you decide which way to go?.. The Mountain Kings of Africa - If you’re looking for retirement ideas, you might try an adventure holiday... Let's Go- “Do something you would LOVE to do, really WANT to do.” This was one of my prize winning Toastmasters speeches. I was 50 at the time of the adventure it describes... Christmas Eve, 1954 - Sometimes, we retirees get nostalgic as we look back with happiness and gratitude at “the way we were”. Many of the older “Baby Boomers” will have their own version of this story... Circle - One of the challenges you may face in mid-life is supporting aging parent(s). This story also deals with assisted living and senior living communities. .. Vocation - In this story, a teacher reflects on the disparity between the dreams he had for his career, and what he feels he has achieved. He is heartened by thoughts of small pleasures and triumphs... Life is beautiful - A philosophical, and sometimes humorous, reflection on the mid- life transition. This is a phase when thoughts of major change or early retirement might first surface.... Trudy - This is a story about one of my best friends, and learning to let go with dignity, humanity and gratitude. Retirement is a time to let go of former colleagues and roles and begin again... Going back - “I knew then why I had come back...to discover how I had changed"... Peter the Great. - Prepare to be surprised and entertained as you enter the curious world of stage hypnotism-but this is also a story about the roles we play and the choices we make... Transitions - We experience many changes and cross many thresholds in life. We leave school, leave home, change jobs, get married, parents die, we retire…in all those cases we are faced with the need to give up one way of life and begin another... This is the theme of my story... Go to Retirement Sentiments - where you will find a full index of stories available on retirement-stories.com. |
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